Saturday, September 13, 2014

Changing the Face of In Search of A Soul

We are growing! According to our statistics page, we have reached over 42,000 viewers! While this is simply amazing, its also a little disheartening that there are so darn many of us going through this.

Nimrod has filed a motion to amend the final order with the court. He's mostly objecting to the income determination used to calculate child support (shocking, right!) Those of you who have been with us since the beginning might remember that I spent most of 2012 in court with him trying to stop child support. So far, the court has held him to an earning capacity of $50,000. 

...and he's trying to get decision making rights back.

I wont be adding the briefs and orders to the blog until this is over.

 In the meantime, I've been doing a lot of thinking about the blog and what direction I want to take. Obviously, there are many more people fighting a sociopath than I ever believed possible. When I began this battle, I had almost no learning resources readily available to help me understand the process. What I most wanted was advice on strategies. So, I'm thinking about adding more information on communicating and coping with sociopathy, as well as legal strategies that worked in my case.

I have been so blessed in the outcome of my case. I want to give back.

What I'd like to know is this: what would you guys like to know? What resources do you feel you most need? What helps?

As always, if you don't feel comfortable commenting, send me an email or message through the blog.

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Quick Update... We WON!!!

I wanted to give all of you a quick update on the outcome of our case. I'm in the process of formatting the legal documentation for everyone to read, but this is going to take some time.

Meanwhile, the court ruled. I have sole custody of my son. The sociopath will see him every other weekend and 1/2 of summer break and has no decision making rights.

God truly does work miracles. It was very hard to wait on HIM, but in the end he acted. Now, to start the process of rebuilding and fixing what's been broken. Stay tuned.... more to come!