Monday, December 10, 2012

Protective Mother Commits suicide after losing her 9 month old daughter in a vicious custody battle complete with e-bullying - MyDeathSpace.com

A Port Orchard woman committed suicide after losing her daughter in a vicious custody battle over her 9 month old daughter.

Kodi Hawthorne, of Port Orchard, had been her daughter Ryah's sole caregiver for the child's entire life. Upon being served with a paternity suit by her daughter's father, Tyler, she arrived in court originally requesting that the father be allowed visitation with his daughter as long as he took his required medication for bipolar disorder, as he had a violent and abusive history.

In the months that followed, a series of character attacks began against Kodi to prove her an unfit parent. She was portrayed as a drug user and abusive parent, despite passing drug follicle screenings and providing pediatrician letters that confirmed Ryah had been a happy, healthy, breastfed infant in her mother's care.

During the court process, Tyler's Myspace pages would cryptically declare, "She is MINE." Hawthorne's residence was stalked and bricks smashed through her window while her daughter was in her care. When attempting to get a restraining order against the father, she was denied.

After passing the necessary hurdles in court to maintain her custody, she was served with paperwork accusing her of raping a 14 year old boy she had lived with and for whom she had provided after school care. Before her rape case was proven or closed, Hawthorne's daughter was then removed from her custody, placed with the father and Hawthorne was given 18 hours of supervised visitation a week.

Despite attempting to assert her visitation rights before her custody trial scheduled for November of 2010, she was consistently denied said visitation by the father, who now had custody. Hawthorne reported her lawyer of Port Orchard had also received threats not to let a supervisor be approved for Ms. Hawthorne to see her daughter.

A study done by the Virginia based American Judges Foundation found that in 70% of challenged custody cases, abusive parents are successful in proving the victimized parent unfit.

Having been given only 2 hours of visitation in 3 weeks, Hawthorne entered a deep depression and consistently received threatening and harassing text messages from "anonymous" emails and phone numbers who she had asserted were from Tyler.

She had been threatened to be arrested to for child rape charges and "thrown into jail" in order to never see her daughter again. The threats, depression and loss of her daughter became too much for Hawthorne, who ended her life in a Kent hotel room on April 8, 2010.

Further investigation with detectives revealed no such rape charges were ever going to be filed, as evidence was not enough to charge Ms. Hawthorne in her rape case. The case mirrors the bullying case of teenager Phoebe Prince, although Kent detectives state that in Washington "a crime has not been committed."

Coincidentally, on Mother's Day 2010, almost exactly one month after Kodi Hawthorne's death, a march of hundreds of victimized parents held a silent vigil at the White House to protest the broken American family court system that removes children from protective parents.


Kodi Hawthorne (26) committed suicide after losing her 9 month old daughter in a vicious custody battle complete with e-bullying - MyDeathSpace.com

38 comments:

  1. I am tired of the courts alloying these sickos bringing loving mothers to their knees and at worst their deaths. I have seen this so much and in mass numbers in the past 4 years I have researched while going up against a diagnosed male BPD with anti-social traits and chronic voices of the devil. This has got to stop. These bullies who chew these women up leave them totally vulnerable and not having an ounce of protection in this system on behalf of a crazy ex I hope have no idea what they are dealing with. I don't want to believe the judges know. I do know nobody even mentions the name of the mother who jumped from her car onto the freeway on her way home from the courthouse after losing custody to an abuser when she seemed to be a loving mother! These who have their hands in this have blood on their hands. Now what's going to happen to this child? My heart breaks for this mother and her family but mostly the child who has no idea what this did to her mom.

    The horrible humiliating false allegations said against me blew my mind and some of us are not equipped to handle that the lies are being believed about us of things we would never do EVER! Something must be done!

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  2. This Money monster that is causing all of these biases needs to be stopped! Too many moms are losing custody to abusive fathers, children are dying and moms are committing suicide because we don't have the same resources that abusive fathers have to fight for the safety of our children. www.fas.org/sgp/crs/misc/RL31025.pdf. We must file a TITLE NINE!

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    1. I reviewed the document of the Fatherhood Initiatives, but would you be wiling to give us more information on what "Title Nine" is, how it works, and how this can help with the problem?

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  3. This would not be possible the other way around.

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  4. You could prove he had bipolar disorder but not she was an unfit mother because she wasn't. The courts gave him custody after saying lies that could not be prove and they also allowed him that she could not even see her daughter. This is not only evil in his part, it is patriarchal in the part of the court, who considered the father aims against the woman and the child.

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  5. THE FATHERS RIGHTS GROUP NEEDS TO BE ABOLISHED! FUNDING NEEDS TO STOP!
    EVIL JUDGES, ATTORNEYS, CPS ALL NEED TO GO TO JAIL!
    GOD WILL NOT BE MOCKED; HE SEES ALL, KNOWS ALL, AND WILL PUNISH ALL INVOLVED!
    THAT IS A PROMISE!

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    1. Says the child predator to continue the illusion that only protective mothers exist. Jeesh. You are the one that will be judged. Fathers get their children handed to abusers, too. Admittedly there is most often a father-in-law pulling the strings of an inadequate mother, but stop polarizing it as mothers and fathers. Bad people exist and they are both male and female. Good people exist and the are both male and female. The evil ones stick together and the good ones fight against each other. Meanwhile the predators smile.

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  6. If the judges decision was based on lies told by the abusive father, this should be brought to the forefront and charges should be pressed against those who told those lies and trashed this mom to the point of losing her baby and now her life. I was said to be the most "reprehensible" mother the other sides attorney had ever encountered. This accusation was thrown at me after years and years of false accusations and horrible lies said of me of which I survived. The reprehensible mother one was based on subject matter of assumption that I did something I never did and was actually something the child did on her own in an attempt to save herself and learned from a child advocate. I don't like to fight. I have feelings. This was the most unbelievable disgusting behavior of humans I had ever witnessed. I couldn't wrap my head around what kind of people attack a loving mother and her child TO WIN ANYTHING! This court crap is out of control and harsh and beyond mean and cruel. They are murderers and they can only deny it with their mouths. I hope every one of these monsters closes their eyes for the last time and relives the grief and pain they caused to others 10 fold and for eternity.

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  7. I left an abusive psychotic man and we had one child together. From there on ensued a horrible legal battle for custody. He had molested my daughter and when I reported it I was accused of making up a vicious lie. I was threatened.I almost lost my daughter to this insane abuser 11 years ago. Again last summer I made him angry and he took me through another helacious court battle. However, this time I had the money and the maturity as well as the experience with how to fight back against a dirty guardian ad litem and my insane ex.

    I know without a doubt, I would have committed suicide had he won her. Her life would have been a nightmare of abuse. What do you do when social services, the courts, the cops and lawyers are all against you when YOU are the VICTIM??! My story has a happy ending- I WON. But I know too many people who lose. It breaks my heart.

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    1. I'm living your nightmare right now. My child lives with me. Though after he got unsupervised visitations the hell started again. I have even thought that he have abused her in part thinking that if my child tells about it, he can accuse me for accusing him. I was granted custody and right after it that happened and he started to use it against me in court.
      He used to blackmail me money when she was smaller. He told me that if I didn't do everything he said he would get visitations or custody and hurt her. When I caught him in act he said that what is by law childs sexual abuse is what fathers can do to their child. He also said that he have a right to beat his child if she doesn't do everything he asks her to do. He would physically hurt her and laugh when she cried.
      He is pure evil. I think that is why it's hard for many to believe what he have done. Before I met him I thought there was nobody that evil. I thought that there is good in everybody and that everyone is good deep inside and that love can make them good. Now I know that there is 100% good people and 100% bad people. Bad people don't have any emphaty and they enjoy hurting others.Even Ariel Castro didn't sexually abuse his biological daughters.
      Evil people are winning in this world because good people are doing nothing. We have to stand up together for our children.

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    2. I'm living your nightmare right now. My child lives with me. Though after he got unsupervised visitations the hell started again. I have even thought that he have abused her in part thinking that if my child tells about it, he can accuse me for accusing him. I was granted custody and right after it that happened and he started to use it against me in court.
      He used to blackmail me money when she was smaller. He told me that if I didn't do everything he said he would get visitations or custody and hurt her. When I caught him in act he said that what is by law childs sexual abuse is what fathers can do to their child. He also said that he have a right to beat his child if she doesn't do everything he asks her to do. He would physically hurt her and laugh when she cried.
      He is pure evil. I think that is why it's hard for many to believe what he have done. Before I met him I thought there was nobody that evil. I thought that there is good in everybody and that everyone is good deep inside and that love can make them good. Now I know that there is 100% good people and 100% bad people. Bad people don't have any emphaty and they enjoy hurting others.Even Ariel Castro didn't sexually abuse his biological daughters.
      Evil people are winning in this world because good people are doing nothing. We have to stand up together for our children.

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  8. The problem is that the victimized parent could be the mother OR THE father. The system needs to look at these situations case by case. My family has a similar situation and it is the mother who is the abusive parent. Women were victims for so long that now the tables have turned and all men in these situations are looked at as the bad parent and it is not always so.

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  9. really rather offended by the women who have posted they would have killed themselves had they lost custody of their child. I have been a target of the most malicious, severe abuse by my ex ever since I left him years ago, the court battles continue, last year he finally managed to lie his way into taking custody, I am trying to get my child back, and I have been disbelieved by courts, cops, even my own barristers, but to kill myself would remove myself as my ex's target, and then where would he go, who would he target next? what do you other mums think? yes, the child he never really wanted but only had to punish the mother. if you are dead, he has no use for the child, does he, mums be mindful of this fact, and the fact that court orders and the rest of these effing ghouls with blood on their hands only last until your child is 18, sometimes earlier. don't you want to be around for then? or are you going to leave your child at the mercy of the abuser? nice one, not

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    1. Exactly. I've been through it all, too, in fact, still going through it. We are the grown-ups, and as hard as it is for us, it is so much harder for the kids. Success is won incrementally in these cases. My daughter deserves so much better than the life she is getting. I want to be around to see her get it, and to help her in any way that I can along the way.

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  10. This is outrageous and it continues because of our corrupt courts, attorneys, judges, government and government authorities. I too lost my three daughters because of their sociopathic father. My daughters were in my life for over thirty years; I was a committed mother and their friend in life. It's been over sixteen years since I've seen them; before this split, caused by their father, we were bonded with love and friendship. Today I have six grandchildren I have never met, but one, a long time ago. He is over seventeen years old now:>( I have since learned that our American system creates our broken families using many ways; most because of the corrupt courts:>( I too felt like committing suicide but have somehow, through my faith, decided this wasn't my answer but I sure understand those who believe it is:>(

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  11. Well when people don't care about who sits on the bench to make decisions regarding themselves and their families this is what happens. Have you ever tried to campaign to get a judge off the bench? Try getting the word out to people before election times as to how important the judges in each county are!!! Those judges sit their pretty much until they die. Ask anyone in your town who the judges in the court house are and I doubt many will know. During an election year they will even tell you that the President is the only one they are concerned with!!! ROTFLMBO at what is not a laughing matter!!!! The President does not immediately decide your life for you the local judges do! But keep on hiding your head in the sand people while your friends have their families destroyed......just because it hasn't already hit your doorstep doesn't mean it will not. Never say never......."Oh, that could never happen to me!" Yeah right..... you come back to me when it's go late and I'll say I told you so and I will not be laughing and neither will you. It is a sick perverted (yes I said perverted and I meant it literally) judicial system that we have across this country. Greed and Power is all they care about and the judges give favors to the people that have paid into their campaign! Do not think it has to be extraordinary amounts of money to get favors! A couple hundred dollars can do the trick.

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  12. well like it was stated before the victimized could be either. my husband and I have relentlessly fought his ex wife for years now. She accused him of sexual abuse with outlandish allegations and crazy stories, and time and time again did everything she could to prove him unfit. All the while, we found out later, she was physically, emotionally, and possibly sexually abusing them herself trying to prove the claims so my husband would go to prison. My husband challenged her for sole custody and after almost 3 years of the hell, they did grant him sole custody but still gave her chances after that to rectify it all. She ended up with permanent supervised visitation in the end. So it could be ANY parent male or female to be victimized. And as i read too on one comment, how deep seeded were her mental health issues to take her life after losing custody? i would never commit suicide, especially if i knew i had to fight for my children. I would fight to the very end.

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    1. My daughter was violently sexually assaulted by her bio father when she was 8, after we had divorced.
      Shortly thereafter she started to disclose to counselors at school.
      He came to our home and tried to leave with her. He beat me, but we managed to get away.
      He filed for custody. And
      I got a protective order that protected both my daughter and myself.
      He then asked 3 different single mothers in a rather short period of time to move in with him. And the third one said yes. She even met him while he was under investigation for sexually assaulting his child, and while he was under house arrest for violating the protective order. She moved herself and young son into the house and in six months they were married.
      He wanted to portray a "family man", and she was a prop.

      And she hated me, although we had never met. She was vicious to my daughter too.

      She believed him, and she was used accordingly as a witness in court against me.

      I will tell you right now, if a man was even just accused of sexual molestation of any child, I run the other way.

      If a man was good, and we know they are rare, why would anyone make up a terrible lie about them?

      If you have children, please keep a close eye on them. Observe the things he does and they way the children act near him.
      Google the signs of sexual abuse and see if the kids are exhibiting any if the behavior.
      You owe it to them to protect them.
      And now since "a crime" has now been committed, maybe Washington will assert charges against those who drove this depressed mother to the edge.

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    2. First of all the only people who should ever be involved in any custody case are the Mother and Father of the child, family court is no place for a new husband or wife to take a stand in a marriage that took place before them as they really don't know what happened during the marriage, they only know what their told or what they hear from their new that side of the family which undoubtedly will desecrate the former spouse and parent of the child. There is no "we" when you stand with one parent against the other parent of their child, that which is not yours and was before your time only serves to create more problems and always make matters worse. The new wife or husband only serve one purpose, they're allies and there's no place for them in a family court matter involving a relationship and a child that was before their time, they weren't around to see or hear things themselves, nothing they could add would be proven or matter of fact, the only fact is that they didn't exist during the time that this relationship/marriage, they weren't there when the child was born and raised, they didn't exist therefore they should not exist in a court case involving a child, the parents of the child or the relationship between the parents. It's a line that no one cross, the people who become the new wife or husband think that title entitles them to cross that line into a time in which they did not exist. If they weren't there to witness it, stay out of it. You simply have no place there. You stand righteous in allegiance to your new husband, come back and update after he does the same to you and takes your kids from you and after you've lost your children tell me the thought of suicide hasn't crossed your mind.

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  13. I lost my 3 boys to their 'father' that raped me and molested at least 2 of them. I have not seen them in 3.5 years. The pain is too much for me to bear. Every day is a battle not to give up. And no amount of counseling and medication has or will change this, knowing the hell they are living in. I am completely powerless to stop any of it.

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    1. My heart is with you, and with your boys. You're right - nothing can take that pain away. Sometimes, we learn to survive by deciding to put our painful experience to good use. I know my battle has been incremental - little by little things can shift. I don't know your situation, but I am sending love and light to you and yours, in hopes that the situation can change at some point, and your boys come home to you.

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    2. My name is Ericka Strobel I live in port orchard wa. I have been there you are not alone . if you need to talk please email me at erickastrobel.es@gmail.com. I can help you.

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    3. My name is Ericka Strobel I live in port orchard wa. I have been there you are not alone . if you need to talk please email me at erickastrobel.es@gmail.com. I can help you.

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    4. I feel for you very deeply. I am going through something similar (and for the 2nd time). Four months ago I was thrown out of my home and of my children's lives by a restraining order based on false allegations. I am not wasting any more time fighting this matter because I know that to do so is futile, will not help anyone, and will merely destroy my life. What I have done instead is I joined a fertility program to try to have a few more children on my own through medical technology -- with sn anonymous donor father (who will have no rights to my children and will not even know that they exist). I know that this is not for everyone, but it is my last chance to have a normal, peaceful, satisfying family life.

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    5. I am just over 5 years completely eliminated from my childrens lives and erased, not one memory of me or with me in the last 5+ years. I offer you my support and friendship, you can contact me anytime, I'm on facebook Julie Halliburton, Southern California, and my email julie151310@aol.com. You are not alone in this hell on earth, we are of the hundreds of thousands of parents all across the US and other countries as well, there's not one place on this planet that this does not exist. It's a global epidemic.

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  14. I am going through the worst time with my custody battle and i am closer to suicidal than I thought I would ever be. There is no justice. There is no hope. I feel after enough of us kill ourselves they will be forced to listen.

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    1. I see your point in practical terms, but at what price would we convince the system? Without us, our kids will lose a bright light that could help them.

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    2. I was there....stay strong for them. Hold on.... Things are going to change.

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  15. This is what is happening to me. An elaborate and successful campaign was created against me to prove that I am mentally ill--despite an 8 hour long evaluation by an independent psychologist, testing, conversations with my therapist that I have seen on and off for 9 years to help me deal with my awful marriage, and indepth conversations with life long friends of mine. Still--he managed--either NO PROOF--to convince them that I was erratic, violent, dangerous, unfit and any number of other things. There was no proof because none of that is true BUT he manufactured doubt. HE made many accusations--in court and out about me. None were true but he said them and filed papers saying them. They beat this false narrative into the courts and to the police and to CPS. Then they convinced the psychologist hey chose--who saw me for 45 minutes--to say the same bad things he has been saying about me. I was exhibiting poor judgment and that I was manipulative. What a bunch of BS. BUT it gave him concreted documentation against me which he parlayed into a court order which is now the basis of everything he uses against me. He got concrete orders from bullshit lies. I was forced into settling custody because he kept the case going so long--convincing the judge it was me--even though I jumped through every hoop. Now I have 50% custody of my boys an he is bullying me and now setting me up to lose that. These guys are relentless and impossible to fight against.

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  16. This is what is happening to me. An elaborate and successful campaign was created against me to prove that I am mentally ill--despite an 8 hour long evaluation by an independent psychologist, testing, conversations with my therapist that I have seen on and off for 9 years to help me deal with my awful marriage, and indepth conversations with life long friends of mine. Still--he managed--either NO PROOF--to convince them that I was erratic, violent, dangerous, unfit and any number of other things. There was no proof because none of that is true BUT he manufactured doubt. HE made many accusations--in court and out about me. None were true but he said them and filed papers saying them. They beat this false narrative into the courts and to the police and to CPS. Then they convinced the psychologist hey chose--who saw me for 45 minutes--to say the same bad things he has been saying about me. I was exhibiting poor judgment and that I was manipulative. What a bunch of BS. BUT it gave him concreted documentation against me which he parlayed into a court order which is now the basis of everything he uses against me. He got concrete orders from bullshit lies. I was forced into settling custody because he kept the case going so long--convincing the judge it was me--even though I jumped through every hoop. Now I have 50% custody of my boys an he is bullying me and now setting me up to lose that. These guys are relentless and impossible to fight against.
    To those who think that being honest and truthfully the best parent will save the day. IT WON'T. The judge and the court do not care about the truth at all. They only care about what the meanest attorney can present when paid by the richest parent. The actual truth never enters the court room--ever. The judge doesn't even make an attempt to uncover the truth.
    If your spouse is a dangerous covert malignant narcissist--then you might as well give up because what he is trying to do is to drive me from my sons lives--even though he doesn't eve nsee them when he has them--it is just about getting them away from me. They hate being with him s he yells and doesn't give them the time of day. My boys and I are really close and always have been as their dad was gone 15 hours per day and had little or no time for them when eh was home.

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  17. They want to be with me but are stuck with him half time and soon he will go for full. He has made my life impossible to live and impossible to survive. Nobody will see it until it is too late and I will be another sad statistic. This is what they do. They push you until you have nothing left. They take everything you have and lie about you. Then you are struggling to survive and cope with the aftermath of what they have done and what they have gotten away with. Mine stole my home, retirement, savings, reputation, and credibility--and my boys!! He set it up so that I am in constant battle against what others think of me.

    People mistakenly think they just call you names and then it is over. NO. They go to people and they convince them with evidence they have manufactured or parlayed real evidence that they acquired by constantly presenting false evidence and then basically brain washing people into believing it and writing a report or something---then they have "hard" evidence that was created out of thin air!!! Once they plant this seed with people--it grows and is always bearing fruit for the narcopath. The victim is fighting it everywhere--it grows like weeds. You are always in a battle for your reputation even when the narcopath is miles away. THAT is how it works when it is done by a covert malignant narcissist.

    That is what is happening to me and in such an elaborate plan that I cannot do it justice here. But it was been devious, well thought out and well executed. Now he just sits back and waits for it to get to be too much for me. Then he will be proven right that I was nut because what sane person would hurt themselves. He'll b miles way and laughing at how he has fooled. His joy is literally my demise. He loves to hurt me and delights when others hurt me on his behalf. He would love it more if I hurt myself.

    He involved the school personal and have them convinced I am nuts. He is very convincing because he lies so much, has no boundaries he won't cross and has his manufactoredproof which he pullsout and uses at every turn. He has destroyed my life. I have no credibility anymore anywhere. My frustration level is so low now because it is a constant battle with everyone. TYHIS is what they do. THESE are the dangerous ones. Not he ones who hurl insults at you at he local grocery toe. BUT the ones who plant seeds and lets them grow. SO that it encompasses everywhere you go. So that you must justify yourself to everyone and they won't believe you. So that you are humiliated and embarrassed and you can never prove your sanity. The more you try--the crazier you look because who has to prove their sanity--only crazy people. It is the proverbial catch 22. They zing you every way they can and you look nuts defending yourself and nuts not defending your self. You are stuck in the trap.

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  18. This is what causes people to kill themselves--because there is no way out for them and they see that. It is true. These deaths are caused because there is no answer unlike a depressed or sad person who has a temporary problem. The victim of a covert malignant narcissist really has no way out. This si't a joke.

    These people are dangerous naddeadly--yet they look like a Ted Bundy. They are nice, freidnly, never worried and always in control. Unlike the victims who are stressed, worried, frightened and angry about what is being done to them. They develop helplessness nd hopelessness and begin to look like what he narc is describing but it is being done to them. This is the insidiousness nature of the illness and the person. It happens like they say--the person becomes despondent etc. because the yare trapped in a web they cannot get free from--but which nobody else can clearly see. It is a disaster and it is terrorizing to the person. panic attacks and PTSD develop--from the unseen terror that is being waged right in front of everyone eyes.

    The victim is tortured a second time by the invisible nature of the attacks so the y are panicked that nobody else can see them. They are angry that nobody else can see them. They are terrorized that nobody else can see them. Thy are sunk by the fact that the abuse is invisible to everyone else except the victim and those who are skilled in sniffing out these kind of soulless bastards.

    I am on this path. Waiting for the next wave of strikes to hit me. Nobody can stop them. When eh achieves taking my boys completely way on yet more false pretense--that is when the end comes. Who can fight after that. My boys need me and they need to know that someone is there who really loves them and is not just using them as a tool to destroy another person. Imagine how that makes them feel inside. He doesn't care. It is what ever serves him the best and he is the master in putting spin on everything--everything.

    God help me in th s journey against the evil one. My faith waivers and my spirit is crushed already

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  19. She will have died in vain because the only ones who will hear th story is other moms going through the dam thing. We are powerless alone. We need to unite and fight this. This is huge and it is or has seeped into every court room and every judge. We are living under a type of sharia law. The way thy get stoned for being raped--we lose our kids for our husbands being abusive to us and to them. Think about it. It is the same logic here as there. Woman are under attack and we must fight back now or we end up being stoned for our own rape!!!! American brand sharia law.

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  20. It happens again and again and again. The narcissist or psychopathic parent is successful in painting the victim as crazy, lazy and unfit. They are masters at deception and the court either cannot or will not look at the truth about how these men operate. I have lost 50% custody to someone who has been abusive but lies and states that he has been abused instead. He has been abusive to the children but lies and says that the children only say that because they want to please the mother!! They use every circumstance to their advantage and the judges are either willfully ignorant or simply don't care. The rate that this is happening to good and loving mothers tells me it can't be an over sight by the courts and, instead, has to be complicity on their part. Tragic and once again, women are begin walked all over by the system and by the husbands too.

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    1. Institutional Grooming.

      http://hubpages.com/politics/The-Fine-Art-of-Grooming

      Institutional grooming refers to the manipulation of professionals who have contact with the victim, so that any allegations of abuse made by the victim are doubted or outright disbelieved.

      The targets of Institutional Groomers may include their victim's General Practitioner, psychiatrist, psychologist, child health nurse, pediatrician, carers at a Family Day Care Facility, school teachers, counselors or therapists. The public servants targeted may be social workers, case workers, investigative officers or police officers employed by government departments such as the Department For Child Protection, the Police's Family Protection Unit and the Department for Community Development. When done with enough finesse to be successful, institutional grooming ensures that any complaints alleged about the perpetrator are either disregarded outright, doubted and therefore not investigated thoroughly, or if acted upon, subsequently dismissed in a court of law

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  21. Insist that these psychopaths be tested with an MRI test or pet brain scan for psychopathy and then publish the results. It's crazy that any court would award a child to a known psychopath. We have to start testing (with MRI/brain scan) doctors, lawyers, teachers, nurses, politicians, etc. for psychopathy before they take an oath of office.

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  22. Child abuse by city worker, judge does nothing.

    Our case is reflective as to why we rank so high in child abuse and death and we want to know this has happen to us, will you please investigate???????

    For the last 4 years my wife and I have been happy raising my wife's 7 year old daughter and we have 2 year old son together. We have been evaluated by CYFD and top psychologist in the state has being good parents. We are drug free alcohol free

    Multiple complaints from different sources of child abuse against father Eric Torres , such as teachers, therapist, family services and even a CYFD report substantiating sexual abuse of my wifes daughter by her father. He is a known satin worshiper with his entire body covered in demonic tattoos.

    Last week Judge Ramirez suppressed all evidence and testimony and took my wife's daughter and gave the father full custody. My wifes daughter has always been a princess for Halloween, but since in her fathers care she has changed to being a demonic for Halloween. There many more red flags, but judge Ramirez would not hear any of it

    We don't understand why this has happen.

    As a result of posting my concerns on facebook the judge has put a restraining order against me and my wife and according to my restraining order I'm not allowed to see my sons sister who I have bonded with and her with me, so much so that she called me her dad. My wife has been threaten with jail time if I continue to post anything about case or my wife's daughter on Facebook.

    My wife has been in tears everyday, we're devestated by the courts decession and our family is suffering greatly please help us understand why

    Here is one of my recent Facebook post

    The courts refuse to protect me and my family, must go to a higher court and media, will not stop until justice is found and I feel safe. Meanwhile need to find a new place to live, tired of running, have moved 5 times in last 3 years in fear. The courts are fixed for those with money and city employees. Vote against Judge Ramirez, she is a corruptible judge that has stepped on my family in a way that is so un human I can only cry with hurt as I wright this post. What has happen to my family is so far left and un ethical and draconian that I keep thinking I'm just having a nightmare and wish to god somebody would wake me up. In truth I wish I could get some sleep, haven't slept in days since our house was broken into just days prior to our nightmare getting our address. I'm so freaked out and yet they denied my request for restraining order, man this is so fucked up

    Sincerely Michael

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